man... i don't give people enough credit to handle information that might actually do harm ...then i find out ..it's no big whoop.
so i've been treading lightly around events that occurred while kuya bernard was fighting for his life. didn't make much sense to cause more sadness as i do believe it's very hard to heal physically if you are having troubles emotionally.
kuya bernard found out about grandma's death when he came home from the hospital. he was sad ...but he took the news pretty well.
he just found out about 'my cops story' that happened while he was in the hospital. we talked about it matter-of-factly and we even laughed about it. i really was not going to tell him about it ...and if he asked questions that i could not or should not answer, I was planning to lie.
i'm glad that mike told him - what a relief for me. now i can talk to my brother without hesitation.
